I’ve never been one to make a list of New Year’s Resolutions. To be honest I always say, “this year I’m going to make the list and stick to it”. I think I never have made the list because why would I want to set myself up for failure. The first thing on everyone’s list every year is, “I’m going to eat healthy this year”. Good thing I didn’t make the list being that I spend a wonderful afternoon on the water with good friends and our kids having a fabulous lunch. You see I already failed myself even without the list. The french fries, brownie sundae, etc.
When it comes to a New Year and a new beginning many people facing the struggle of infertility put on the top of their list. “this is the year I’m going to get pregnant”. Isn’t that a lot of pressure to face? Is it necessary to put such pressure on yourself? Oh the list………. The guilt that I have to stick to it. We all know that going through the struggle of infertility is just that, ” a struggle”. Adding more pressure to an already stressful situation is definitely not necessary.
Whether your just starting a journey into the world of IVF, egg donation or surrogacy take the list of New Year’s Resolutions pressure that you wrote and flush it down the toilet. Let the pressure you’ve put on yourself to be pregnant at this exact moment fly out the window. Focus on your inner happiness and find the right balance in your life so that you can move forward in your journey into IVF, egg donation or surrogacy. The best advise that I can give you is find the fertility clinic that is the best fit for you. Do your research and homework. Try, try hard to not allow your fertility journey to consume your every moment. Added stress does not help to create a positive outcome.
Let go of your past fertility struggles and focus on the present. Contact us as Creative Love Egg Donor & Surrogate Agency anytime to to help guide you or to be a helpful resource to your success.Return to Blog